I love names, and I've had a name list for years... long before I got married. :) The list has of course changed over time, but during our years of infertility we had a lot of time to think and had some girl names we were pretty set on. We have boy names we like too, but for some reason they've always been harder. We didn't find out that Christian was a boy until the 20 week ultrasound, so we had been debating both girl and boy names for him for months. Getting pregnant with this baby just 3 months after our devastating loss made me want a fresh start. So although there are names we've loved, carefully considered and debated for years... it felt right to choose a name that we never considered for our first baby. One of the first bright spots/glimpses of hope for the future I felt was on our trip to the south in March. Magnolia Plantation (just outside of Charleston, South Carolina) was one of the most beautiful places we had ever visited. I remember sitting on a bench...